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Category: Relationships

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  • Communication, Relationships

When Difference Feels Dangerous

They say opposites attract. And early on, that's often true — their calm steadied your chaos, their boldness lit up your caution, their warmth thawed something in you. But somewhere down the road, the same equation can quietly shift: opposites attract... and then, maybe, opposites attack.
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  • Communication, Personal Growth, Relationships

The ADHD Impact in Relationships – When Interesting Wins Out

When Interesting Wins. ADHD, Priority, and the Art of What Actually Matters — a guide for both of you.
Two people walking separately through a foggy field, symbolizing emotional distance and the importance of seeing people with dignity.
  • Relationships

People Are People, Not Objects

I have recently become aware of a nefarious attitude that pervades our society. It may seem innocent, but in its most extreme use, is deadly. What could I possibly be talking about?
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  • Communication, Relationships

Why We Complain

In relationships, we have two desires that both work for and against each other. We have needs for connection and protection. The need for connection starts when we are born and absolutely need people in our life that will nurture us and care for us.
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  • Relationships

The Two Essentials

Can I be honest with you? I don’t have it all figured out. Let me just put that out there, right off the top. What I do know has been shaped by my personal experience sitting in the classroom and then in sessions with hundreds of couples.
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  • Relationships

The Connection vs Protection Dilemma

Have you ever been stuck in a dilemma of choice? We call it the “double bind,” meaning that either choice comes with certain problems. Relationships often offer us this double bind of either maintaining connection or protection. When we our attachment becomes threatened, we are forced to make a choice.
Young man reacting thoughtfully during a video conversation, illustrating changing perceptions of communication in modern relationships.
  • Communication, Relationships

Perceptions of Communication Must Be Transforming

In face to face conversations, we are at a distinct disadvantage. We see what is in front of us. What we don’t see though could actually be holding us back from some of the most important information in a conversation. Perhaps the flow of the following example conversation is familiar to you.
Married couple enjoying a romantic dinner together
  • Marriage, Relationships

What every relationship needs to thrive

I’ve been married for over 29 years and I’m a Psychotherapist that has worked with hundreds of couples. I’ve seen some stuff and I know it takes effort to maintain healthy relationships. I also know that relationships that work include a few essential ingredients.
Father sitting with his head in his hand after a difficult breakup.
  • Divorce & Separation, Relationships

5 “G” Words For Dads To Be Aware Of After A Breakup

Dad’s must be mindful of these five “G” words for an amicable breakup and a healthy relationship with their children afterwards. Separation or divorce is certainly less than ideal and not planned when a couple start dating. It effects everyone it touches, from the ex-partner to children and also extended family and friends.
Christian couple discussing important relationship questions before marriage.
  • Relationships

Christian Singles, There Are Questions You Need To Discuss

Christian single have lots of things to consider before the commit to a serious relationship. Yes there are lots of questions about money, sex, kids, and career goals. But what about religion? It’s kind of a big deal and has to be discussed early on, and can really help you figure out if the relationship has serious potential or not.
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